Well, actually, no, I rarely keep busy, and get overwhelmed when some people talk non-stop about their activities, and swoon about their summer vacations.
Being an introvert, I rarely yearn to live an overly-active life, but I find as I get older, I need and want more contacts than before. I have no idea how to make a friend. I used to fantasize about meeting the perfect(for me) man who would cherish me and we would have a happy life. No go so far.
I went on a “date” last week. We agreed to meet at a bookstore with a cafe. I assumed he would be somewhat kind and courteous, but that was not to be. He refused to pay for my coffee and Biscotti, and ordered nothing for himself.
What a downer. I should have left then. So, good-bye online dating, and back to my comfy condo and no more dates.